I’ve been investigating how common polygamy is in Egypt.  According to official statistics, it’s only about 3%, but anecdotal evidence is that it’s much more common, especially in the lower classes.  And here, as with the women in this story, first wives almost universally abhor the idea.  Second wives usually don’t like it, but don’t have other alternatives.  In Egypt, men lie to the imams, or find a way to intercept the required legal notice sent to the first wife, so often the first wife doesn’t know about it.  As the woman in this piece says, the relationship of the husband to plural wives simply can’t be equal.  He ends up with a favorite, or more likely he never has a genuine family relationship, Western-style, with any of them. This habit, along with the ancient African practice of FGM, is destructive to family life and the love between parents and children.  It cripples society.

As may be, but it is coming.  If gender is no longer a reason to pervent marrage then the number of people you marry can’t be either.  A number becomes arbitrary and irrational just as gender has become and there is no longer a rational basis at law to discriminate.

It should be a simple thing to make the new Marriage Rite not only gender neutral but to also address the need to include plurality. No doubt the BCP of the future will allow for spouse/partner/other to be asked if they accept wife#?/husband#?/lover#? into the household. Then the whole lot of them can be blessed by changing “this man” and “this woman” to “these men and these women.”
This might also be a great opportunity for jewelers, wedding planners, caterers, and photographers to cash in and stimulate our economy.

The Diocese of Olympia’s clergy directory has listed clergy names followed by “Spouse/Partner” for several years now.  It isn’t hard at all (and why indeed should it be?) to include additional lines beyond one after that heading.  Word processing has made all kinds of theology easier.

At least polygamy has the weight of thousands of years of cultural and legal precedents, and also has the advantage of only an implied inhibition in the Bible.  Further, God describes Himself as having two wives in Israel and Judah within the Old Testament.  Certain other forms of marriage that have been advanced have none of these behind it.

The next “equality” issue?

This is kingdom building. Read this:
http://college-ethics.blogspot.com/2008/05/polygamy-spreading-silently.html

Didymus, please cite the verse to which you refer here: “God describes Himself as having two wives in Israel and Judah within the Old Testament.” (Note that these 2 realms are on a north-south axis.)