...any time the word "bomb" comes up at all — in a lesson on a war in history, in a novel in literature class — kids start laughing and pointing at ...[my nephew].
It's a problem that's affecting his slang.
"Everybody's favorite phrase is 'That's the bomb.' You know, like 'That video game's the bomb.' But I can't say that because kids will make fun of me."
What's a parent to do?
"Do the teachers know this is going on?" I asked.
"Sure, they see it and they hear it. But they'd rather not get involved. Mostly, they just pretend that it's not there."
"I've told him I can come to his school and talk to the principal, the teachers, the kids, whoever," said his father, an immigrant from India who works as an engineer and moved to this particular suburb for the good schools and seeming openness to diversity.
My nephew reacted like I would have when I was 14 — as if he'd rather be run over by a truck than have his father come to school to talk about what a great religion Islam is....
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Posted March 8, 2010 at 12:34 pm
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2. Creedal Episcopalian wrote:
The celebrations in the streets of the Muslim world after the World Trade Center attacks were not silent. |
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3. Dale Rye wrote:
Great argument. So, on that theory, the deafening silence of Irish Catholics in Ireland to IRA violence and the equally deafening silence of Protestants in Ireland to UDA violence would justify teenagers in America to bully children of Irish descent who have absolutely no control or responsibility for what their remote cousins in the Old Country might be up to. “In those days they shall say no more, The fathers have eaten a sour grape, and the children’s teeth are set on edge. But every one shall die for his own iniquity: every man that eateth the sour grape, his teeth shall be set on edge.” Jeremiah 31:29-30. “Yet say ye, Why? doth not the son bear the iniquity of the father? When the son hath done that which is lawful and right, and hath kept all my statutes, and hath done them, he shall surely live. The soul that sinneth, it shall die. The son shall not bear the iniquity of the father, neither shall the father bear the iniquity of the son: the righteousness of the righteous shall be upon him, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be upon him.” Ezekiel 18:19-20. Of course, you may differ from those sentiments, since they weren’t written by Christians but by men of another faith. March 8, 2:58 pm | [comment link] |
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4. angloirish wrote:
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5. Dale Rye wrote:
Four points, Angloirish: 1. No, instead Americans sent assistance to the IRA and UDA that was used to kill Irish and UK citizens in the name of religion. How is that a straw man? Are you suggesting that killing Irish men, women, and children is somehow less morally repugnant than killing Americans? 2. If you haven’t heard a Muslim spokesman condemn terrorism, you weren’t reading Fr. Kendall’s website last Tuesday, when he ran a story on one of a large number of such condemnations. 3. Even if we were to assume (contrary to the evidence) that Muslim spokesmen uniformly support terrorism, that doesn’t answer Mr. Patel’s question of how theoretically-civilized “Christians” can justify the bullying of children. 4. Incidentally, the quotes on “Christian” in #3 aren’t his, but mine. I think that Scripture is pretty clear in its rejection of vicarious personal guilt (as opposed to original sin), even for adults. It seems equally clear on the notion that God has a special care for children, “for of such is the Kingdom of Heaven.” 5. I will also make the observation that the alliance in the USA between certain elements of the Anglican reasserter movement and certain elements of the far political right makes it rather difficult for those of us with an orthodox theology but merely conservative politics to join our cause to theirs. I hope I never reach the point when I can say “nuff said” to bullying children because of my political opposition to people who are only remotely related to them. March 8, 4:08 pm | [comment link] |
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6. Creedal Episcopalian wrote:
I don’t see that we differ in any substantial respect; I described an empirical scheme for surviving in a fallen world, not ascribing any moral judgment. Children (and men) will taunt and bully, especially when fearful. And ignorance often begets fear. The flaw is blaming the ignorant for information that has been held from them.
Neither do I regard Christianity and Judaism to be completely different faiths. As to the Irish, I recall neither the Protestants or Catholics being particularly silent in expressing their opinions regarding sectarian violence in the old country or it’s justification. Nether do they demand my submission to their creed, or randomly murder my compatriots to support their cause. The Norwegians, on the other hand, I know nothing about, so I must worry….. March 8, 4:26 pm | [comment link] |
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7. Barrdu wrote:
“What’s a parent to do?” I would think it easier to educate one’s 14 year old son (regarding fear and ignorance) than to attempt to change the attitudes of the classmates. It’s not the teacher’s responsibilty to police attitudes. If the child is really in a good area for diversity, they’ll (the young people) will work it out. March 8, 5:19 pm | [comment link] |
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8. Katherine wrote:
Schools should take positive steps to ensure that all students are safe in their persons and in their property at school. Schools should teach personal respect for all. However, it is simply not possible for the school to see that all students like each other, or that no student ever hears an unkind word from others. Children suffer because they are too short, too tall, too fat, too thin, too smart, too stupid, or any of an infinite number of things which make them different from others. To take each and every difference and insist that the school must teach that whatever characterizes this student is above criticism is impossible. This student does deserve protection if he’s being, as the article says, literally pushed around. Otherwise, he should explore his religious and family traditions and why they are important to him, leading to a pride and identification in spite of outside disapproval. That’s what many believing Christians are doing today, after all, and what many generations of Jewish American students have done. Muslim anger at American “prejudice” is often misdirected. They should be angry at their co-religionists whose actions taint the whole group. March 8, 10:21 pm | [comment link] |
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This pretty much sums it up. There is no argument, no protest, no outcry following Islamic terrorism. There is almost total silence from Muslim leaders on the issue of extremism in the name of Islam. The silence is deafening. The Muslim world needs to take responsibility for the view held by those who only hear silence in the wake of Muslim violence. Silence portends complicity, or at the very least, approval.
March 8, 1:05 pm | [comment link]